what does the Bible say about this? In First Corinthians chapter six
Do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom
of God? Be not deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers,
nor effeminate, nor homosexuals...
13 Food is for the stomach and
the stomach for food; but God will do away with them, Yet the body
is not for fornication, but for the Lord. 18 Flee fornication. Every
other sin that a man commits is outside the body; but he that commits
fornication sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that
your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have
from God, and that you are not your own? 20 For you have been bought
with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.
chapter seven says:
2 But because of fornications, let each man have
his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 9 But if they
do not have self-control, let them marry; for it is better to marry
than to burn.
In Galatians chapter five it says:
19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these, Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, 20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, 21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
There are many more scriptures in the Bible besides these. If you
have been having a problem with sex outside of marriage, God can help
you gain control of this.
First, you must know that you have the Holy
Spirit dwelling within you. Surrender your life to Jesus and His works
on the cross. Tell Him so in prayer.
Second, you might need deliverance.
See a pastor who believes in deliverance.
Third, you will need to renew
your mind. Reading the scriptures, thereby learning who you are as
a Christian and respecting yourself, who others are and respecting
them, and who God is and that you can depend on Him for all things
will give you the mental clarity to keep your mind on the right things.